Why Adapt If You Were Born To Be Special

Our society is governed by well-defined laws, and even if we think that they are not present in our daily life, they are more so than what we believe.

Let’s say the company has drawn up a table with the instructions, the limits and the actors, we.

These rules of the game can vary by country, and what represents an ideal for some is a nightmare for others, as it does not let them express their true individuality.

We can say that it is always more comfortable to sail with the wind at your back than with the wind in front.

But people who have said something poignant to the world do not characterize themselves as such. The word “comfortable” is the last word that would define them.

They have a vision that perhaps drives them to disappointment and discomfort, but they are willing to take the risk to stay true to what they really think of themselves and not to satisfy the demands. requests from others.

Why adapt if you’re not sure that’s what you want

Obviously, you are often lost in this array of options that serve to define yourself, fit in, or just feel suited, which all wrongly equates to something good.

But in reality, we are all born unique and the only way to fit in is to reveal the truth that we all hold within us.

If we do not succeed, we will be beings subject to laws and currents of society which are perhaps totally incompatible with our way of being and of positioning ourselves in the world.

So, if at times you don’t feel well, the first thing you need to think about is whether the ways of living that the world has to offer are going to empty your mind even more.

Thinking about all the doubts that cloud your mind sometimes serves to change, or to reaffirm yourself.

Because the suffering that we can feel in this world to be ourselves is not comparable to the terrible existential void of living without knowing where we are going and what exactly we want.

Why adapt to something that you think is safe, but that you don’t get any pleasure from?

Why give up the depth to stay in the superficial

Look around and see from a perspective other than judging yourself or comparing yourself to others.

Think about the people who left a mark on you: they surely had an infinity of contradictions, surprises, wise reflections and silences that accompanied them. They must have come to you because you attracted them.

You don’t meet special people by chance.

They have surely brought a breath of fresh air, because they are people with a special talent or authenticity among a large number of people who have never brought you anything.

Maybe they made you love an afternoon, a walk, or an endless conversation again.

If you’ve known these kinds of people, tell yourself that the ball is in your court… You must try to be the person you would like to know.

Do not submit, do not change, even if this world sometimes seems absurd to you because talent and kindness are underestimated and appearance and bad intentions prevail most of the time.

Please do not let this chain of small human favors get broken because they will make you believe that you are wrong.

We all have the right to make mistakes, but what we cannot forgive ourselves is ending up believing in who we really are.

Why be conventional in what you do when you could be brilliant

We have all come into the world with a gift, and not developing it is totally unforgivable. It is not about being better than others, but simply developing your ability to grow from the inside out and give this gift to others.

If you do it right, people will thank you, because in a world where vulgarity and lack of knowledge are more common than they should …

It is good to know the good and bad things that happen to those around you, their difficulties, the realities of others, but the question “what is going on in your life?” is the one you need to ask yourself.

Why do many people, immersed in their thoughts and doubts, in their fears and disillusions, watch life go by without clinging to it?

Maybe because they don’t want to, because they’re tired of seeing things around them that don’t make them dream …

You cannot judge these people, you do not know the deepest pains of others, but if you too succumb to disappointment, this human chain of favors, details or great opportunities will not see in you. an ally.

So, don’t let the world disappoint you. If you think you have something special, don’t struggle to blend in… just be yourself. The world will thank you.