Our Worst Spelling Mistake: Not Knowing How To Put An End Point

We don’t make our worst misspellings when we write, but in our lifetimes, when we don’t know how to put an end to it.

The lesson to be learned from this sentence appeals to our courage, because it marks the starting point for growth.

Knowing how to turn the page, put an end to cycles and relationships can seem difficult, especially because it is difficult for us to have certainties when leaving these people, these moments or these places that allowed us to feel so good.

The fact of “fighting for what we want until the end” is very often a way of concealing our worry and procrastinating in order to set in motion the machine of emotional determination which helps us to take control. decision so hard for us.

Our mistake: putting ellipses instead of a full stop

The old mania of putting ellipses keeps us from growing.

If we don’t open the window, we don’t see life radiating; if we do not leave the door open, we will suffocate and we will not be able to “blow away” the dust that prevents us from breathing.

In these cases,  negation  plays an essential role, because it is a reflection of our lack of courage and the scarcity of the means at our disposal to attribute to it a negative emotional reality.

We then strive to say that this is a “passing step” and refuse to take our feelings and thoughts seriously.

Breaking up is indeed a very serious subject, and it is therefore normal that we are afraid to make a decision about it.

Yet when we don’t, we end up becoming bitter, unhappy, irritable, pernicious and defeatist people, which bogs us down in a black hole full of contradictions.

As we are used to saying, a half-full glass is better than an empty glass, but can a half-full glass be enough to fill our emotional life?

If something isn’t making us happy or a relationship isn’t making us feel good, what kind of bonding or support do we think we have afterwards?

Let’s face it: if we want good things to happen, we have to say goodbye to others

“Let go”, “let go”, “say goodbye” . Little words that symbolize big actions.

More than familiar aphorisms, these are clear messages that remind us that it’s not worth staying in one place when you just become observers, unhappy people, or pity-causing silhouettes.

Do not go where you do not feel loved and do not stay where you do not feel loved, this is a fundamental premise that we should work on from childhood so that once necessary, we do. take priority over our emotional needs and listen to our hearts when necessary.

We would give anything for reasons to keep the door and window open, but yet there is no other solution than to put an end to where we used to put ellipses before.

This is the maxim we should stick to to take care of our emotional health, to give ourselves courage, to protect our hearts, and to move forward in life by speaking in the first person when it comes to feelings.

Let’s not let hope and joy fade away, but let’s not let carelessness and suffering rule us either.

It is of course complicated (and sad) to put an end to our stories, but when we do, we don’t let in new great stories.

Finally, let’s not forget:

Leaving certain places is also taking care of yourself.

To move away from certain people is also to protect yourself.

To close certain doors is also to love oneself.