Lack Of Time Does Not Exist, Unlike Lack Of Interest
It is said that there is no such thing as a lack of time, unlike a demand for interest. Indeed, when people really love, dawn becomes day, Tuesday becomes Saturday and a moment becomes an opportunity.
Those who expect a lot from others are often disappointed and more likely to suffer.
Indeed, the lack of interest can hurt… very badly. On the other hand, it goes way beyond disappointment.
Lack of interest results in painful stinging in the stomach, which makes us feel like something inside us is tearing our soul apart.
When you are hurt, there is nothing you can do to alleviate this suffering that you feel; keeping sanity in the face of abandonment and humiliation already requires enough effort.
The passing of time and the injuries we suffer change us, so much so that these activities that we enjoy doing today will no longer attract us tomorrow.
However, this does not justify the lack of sincerity, nor communication with others.
Accept the fallacy of lived time
Unfortunately, falsehood and hypocrisy are such delicate subjects that usually they are found hidden in an unexpected corner and when it is already too late.
Most often, we wait for the other to be as we imagine them and that reassures us, when in fact, we had better be more realistic.
This is when the problems arise, because in reality, there are many more interested people than one thinks, even if one refuses to face reality.
If we adopt such behavior, it is because we do not want to believe that these people who are so important to us are not sincere.
False or interested people are usually those who, when asked for explanations of their actions, get angry and try to find a way to avoid confrontation.
Probably they devour us with their poisonous words, so that we, blinded by our thirst for love, we feed the hope that they are the people who correspond to us.
Learn to offer your absence to those who don’t appreciate your presence
Sometimes we waste time by persisting in wanting to see someone who does nothing to see us, by forcing situations that we believe are necessary.
Usually, we make the mistake of looking without giving others a chance to find us, which ultimately is just a way of abusing our dignity.
The moment we realize it, something within us breaks and a wave of disappointment, fear and sadness invades us.
It is then that we realize that we should not wait for someone who does not want us to wait for him.
Then begins a long process of protection requiring that we make room for understanding in our life, and that we refuse to enter all these people who have hurt us and who behaved in such a way. interested with us.
Surround yourself with the people you love and be happy
Rely on these values which are fundamental to you, enjoy the sensitivity, the kindness, the respect, the humility, the trust and the faith, the gratitude, the wisdom, the sincerity, the love, friendship, tenderness and unconditionality.
Emphasize in your life the best reality you know, get rid of wickedness and cruelty, do not pay attention to the Per toxic Counting find your oxygen, count to three and breathe.
Feel the psychological puffs of air travel through your lungs and greet your emotions.
Surround yourself with those people who make you feel that the world is a worthwhile place, and that only your shell can protect you from the rain.
Forget about all those who may have underestimated you or who did not devote a single moment to you without you having to ask them.
Free yourself from all that traps you, and let life surprise you without it necessarily needing to hurt you for it. Do not expect anything from anyone, expect everything from yourself. The rest will happen when you least expect it.