I’m Not Afraid Of The One Who Attacks Me; I’m Afraid Of The False Friend Who Hugs Me

In life, we have more than once the opportunity to be surprised by the attitudes of the people around us, who we nevertheless believed to be faithful and loyal to the feeling of friendship. Therefore, one realizes that a friend is false, once the damage is done …

The stabs we receive in the back generate great suffering in us which, at times, is unbearable for us.

It supposes a rupture of the confidence and the relation which one had then with the person for whom one would have put our hand in the fire.

It is difficult to protect yourself from the hypocrisy and betrayal of those you considered  friends. On the other hand, we must always take into account the fact that even if all that glitters is not gold, we can still trust the world.

Friendship is a very precious commodity

As we all know, true friendship is a rare commodity that thrives on good feelings, hopes and expectations. So, whoever has a friend does not have a treasure, but he has a fortune.

Anyway, as terrible as it may seem to us, friendships (or rather, relationships) end when you no longer take care of yourself and forget the values ​​on which are based. these friendships.

Things take a turn for the worse when betrayal and lying take the stage, disguised
as good intentions in the middle of the game. Then the relationship
is overrun with hypocrisy and falsehood.

In these moments, something breaks in us and turns our world upside down.  Our castles crumble and we find ourselves in a totally destroyed world.

It can therefore be difficult to have faith in humanity again and to believe in pure and genuine feelings. We may even have trouble letting go of that part of us that has been with us until then.

These friends who betray us therefore do not do justice to the term “friendship”. It is therefore only a matter of simple relationships which could have represented something positive but which were distorted along the way… or perhaps even from the start.

5 types of bad friends

that we must recognize if we want to prevent their influence in our life.

1. Those who always claim to be the best

Having ambitions and worries is not bad, but there are people who always want to be superior to others. They are characterized by never being happy for us, and they never congratulate us on our successes.

2. Those who still have problems

They define themselves by their inability to feel lucky and by their relentless search for compassion and support. They complain about everything and life itself is a tragedy for them.

It doesn’t matter if you’re going through a rough patch, you’ll eventually give in to their desperate demand for heartwarming words.

3. Those who always make you feel bad

These are the people who make you feel guilty and selfish every time you move a finger or open your mouth.

Whatever you do will never be right, and they will never make you feel like you are doing the right thing unless it is in their interest.

4. Those only interested in gossip

Gossiping and easy judgment is what these people love. When you are with them, you feel like they are just looking to find out more about the latest news in your life.

5. Those who are only looking to profit

There are people who try to benefit from everything, even the miseries of others. Usually, the balance tilts in their favor, and they only act if they are guaranteed to profit from the situation.

Even though I’m disappointed sometimes, I still believe that there are good people

Yes, good people do exist. No betrayal can make us believe that the world is dark.

Moreover, it is obvious that we are not infallible and that sometimes we make mistakes without actually intending to “stab our friends in the back”.

No one is inherently good or bad, but in our eyes, the person who betrays us is a terrible demon. However, we must use these experiences to learn to know what we want.

With all these shells behind which we hide, we continue to encounter bad relationships.

This is why, since doubts, fear and falsehood are the only ones that harm us, we must strive to cultivate frankness, honesty and loyalty. Without shells and without masks, but sincerely, quite simply.