I Will Continue To See You … But With Other Eyes, In Other Forms
Even if you are no longer there, I will continue to see you, you will still be present in my decisions. I will feel you in my laughter and you will live in my way of being which was forged with yours. Never has a “ We are nothing” been so unfair. We are ephemeral in time and eternal in the soul. In a way, we don’t start with the lives of those we love.
Dealing with loss is one of the most difficult tasks in our life. The emotional void that a person’s lack leaves in our life will always be present. Nevertheless, the deceased person never disappears completely but will remain and live in other forms in our existence.
We are not born to say goodbye. We only say goodbye when we forget. We cannot say goodbye to those we will think about every day. Our perception changes when we experience the death of a loved one. Although we can no longer enjoy his company as before, we know that he remains in everyone he has marked with his imprint, including ourselves.
I will continue to see you
We might think that we are not human beings on a spiritual journey, but spiritual beings on a human journey. Death does not rob us of our loved ones. On the contrary, it preserves them and immortalizes them in memory. On the other hand, it is life that we often and definitely. That’s why I will continue to see you.
In the face of a loss, what was established changes. We are faced with new situations and with different points of view. One of the biggest changes is accepting what is gone, and, in a way, what we have left. It is often in the darkest skies that we see the brightest stars.
There are memories that will never fade and people that will never be forgotten
“Just let me be weak and cry today, tomorrow I’ll be strong again”. This sentence sums up the void left by the lack of someone who has been with us for a lifetime. Nostalgia often sadly reminds us that there was a time when everything was perfect and we didn’t realize it. But even in this sadness, we also harbor the joy that what is past will pass.
The memories we never deny and the people we never forget are the walls with which we build our fortress. This fortress is the basis on which we will find a new path to find the person who no longer exists physically but who will always accompany us. That’s why I will continue to see you.
This hope is not the same as optimism. It is not the belief that something will be right, but rather the certainty that something makes sense no matter how it turns out. And, in the case of human beings, we already know what the end result is. This does not exempt us from having the certainty that everything makes sense.
This happens, above all, in the case of lives that will not go down in history for extraordinary successes. But they will be remembered for their example of kindness, compassion and humility.
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