How People See Me And How I See Myself

Do you see yourself as you are or as others think you are? It may seem like a trivial question, but in reality it is very interesting and thought-provoking.

Once we think about this, we realize that others may not see us the same way we see ourselves.

For example, the way you behave or what you show to others gives them an image of you that you don’t necessarily share.

All of this can influence positively or negatively. Imagine, for example, that you have a few extra pounds and others tell you that you are fine.

This is a simple example of how your perspective is not the same as other people, and it influences a lot.

Self-portrait

Many of us are full of complexes that keep us from enjoying ourselves. It all comes from the fact that we always want to give an image of ourselves that we like.

We are continually thinking about the image we are going to send to others, how they will see us, etc.

What we don’t know is that people don’t see us as we think or want them to see us.

It would be very positive to start interacting with the people around you and asking them directly how they see you.

It can help you understand how unique our perspective is, and even when we are trying to see ourselves from the outside.

If you do, you will discover things that you didn’t think of yourself. Anything that you are told will help you form a more real picture of what you are projecting to others. What are you going to find out about yourself?

Sometimes we let ourselves be too influenced by what we think is expected of us.

How do others want us to be? It can form an outward image of ourselves that we do not identify with.

Sometimes, if we come into contact with manipulative or aggressive people who submit to us, we can end up giving an image that is not at all what we really are.

Why is our self-esteem so relegated? We behave exactly as others want us to behave. Don’t allow that.

How you see yourself

The way you see yourself influences the way others see you. If you have complexes, they will show up, and people will notice them.

In any case, wanting to be who we are not, trying to please everyone, being yourself, allowing yourself to be influenced, having a strong personality: everything is noticeable!

What should you think about when you think about how you see yourself? Here are two very important factors:

• What you think about yourself always comes true whether you like it or not. Everything that goes through your mind will manifest itself in some way, so think positivity and leave the negative behind.
  Think about what is positive about you, this is great for your mental and physical health.

• Beauty is created in your interior, all the good, the positive, must come from you, and no one else. Why hide who we are?
  Manifest your true self, because sometimes we want to be people that we are not really. Accept yourself, accept this beauty and manifest it.

One of the most important things is to consider how you treat others as well.

If we treat others well and respect them, they will see us with positive eyes.

It is normal that some days are less positive than others. We are human! But others will always see us through the way we treat them.

Your perspective is not the only one, and the things we see, we do not see them as they are, but as we are.

If we are negative, we will see everything as negative. And others will see us as negative people.

Try asking others how they see you! You can then share with us what you have discovered.

This little exercise costs nothing, and will help you open your eyes and see yourself from a different perspective. What did you learn about yourself? Realize that your point of view is not necessarily reality.

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